A friend asked me last night, 'Would someone's life become simple by being single?'
I can only answer with a question philosophicly, 'Do we need someone to make us feeling complete?'
The Yes and the No, neither of them is wrong.
If the purposes of our life is having a simple life in definitions is without arguing bout things and also without having bad feelings if we don't share everything in mind.
Yes, being single is a wise idea.
Because, we will never living without arguing while we live with someone. N e v e r.
It would take years to really really close to know our partner. Not to mention the relationships quality and distance took places as main requirements.
A friend of mine, has lived with her ex hubby for almost 10 years as a couple in the same house. But the ex just found out that she publishing a book. He didn't know what the hell of his ex wife's passion these 10 years. After separated he just got surprised. And the sentence 'I'm the one who knows everything bout you' became touch down.
A guy I've known just told me, that he didn't realize and couldn't even remember why he could fall in love with his ex wife 9 years ago while these days he wrote on his wall head that his ex is the most enemy on earth. They only in marriage for 1 year after dating for 7 years before it.
Each person is unique. An answer of a question 'who am I' is 'a collection of our memories'. And the memories of every person are different.
The simple minded friends, can not reach the goal of having (what they called) simple life if they're not being single, even living with our twin would be complicating. Even living with someone who is deaf and blind, is not simple. There always be conflicts.
The simple minded friends, can not reach the goal of having (what they called) simple life if they're not being single, even living with our twin would be complicating. Even living with someone who is deaf and blind, is not simple. There always be conflicts.
It depends on how we manage our ego, by not making simple the both minds, but by making simple the way we communicate our own minds, not by arguing but by discussing, not by yelling but by talking. Not by keep silence, but by comprimizing.
Silence is the signal of a dangerous relationships, don't be happy of the quietness. Maybe we can feel undisturbable and simple, but it drags you to a ravine of separation.
Every human has his own purposes in life, and if we believe that there has to be another human who help us to reach our purposes and dreams, so choose someone whose worth to be by your side and, dont forget to accept all the consequences of being together.
If we need to SHARE our bests in life, why living single?
If we believe that life is nothing but GIVING, why living simple?
'Don't think simple. Act simple.'
Albert Einstein
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