February 13, 2015

It is Love

It is Love

Even a screamy mum. It is love.
It might the only language she took at childhood course.
But, it is love. In a Minionese language.

Even a speechless dad. It is love.
It must be the only choice he speaks. 
But, it is love. In a Ghost language.

Even an ignorant sibling. It is love.
It is the best way they cope with us. To comfort both sides.
But it is love. In a Cozy language.

Love has many different 'languages'
We dont have to understand all.
We just have to feel.

In family stuff,
Throw away 'head'.

Use heart. It will connect.

February 6, 2015

SplitSpa Community

Worth the wait.
Counting down to publish my new blog.

www.splitspa.com

A brainstorm utility for getting answers of how n why adults should know what's inside every children minds about parent's divorces. Explore the do's & dont's for splits couple, thru the children's perspectives.

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'I and my wife would accept in running our zombie life. We will do this for the sake of our children future.' (parents)

'I prefer seeing them seperately happy than having endless war. Just don't teach us that kind of love.' (a kid of a seems-to-know-all-kids-feelings parent)

'They may lost their each other's hearts. But dont make us so, please.' (children)

'The more you telling me bad things bout dad, the more negative feelings i have bout you, mom.' (daughter)

'If my parent would never seperated, i might not be as strong as i am now. Grateful for my childhood.' (son)

'Split maybe a bad-but-better decision we should make. But then blindly put children in a single parent zone, is the worse. There are options.' (divorce coach)
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This site is dedicated to my stranger-dad, my step siblings & my brave daughter. Yet, to all the broken homers friends.