Aku ingin ini, itu, kuingin semua.
Aku harus begini dan begitu.
Aku gak mau ini, itu, gak mau sedikit.
Aku akan begini dan begitu.
Muluk? Tdk.
Semu? Iya.
Tdk jelas? Betul.
Tapi aku punya loh keinginan yg teramat sangat jelas.
Tujuan hidup aku didunia ini hanya satu,
Ingin, Akan dan Harus menjadikan anakku BERtujuan hidup TERbaik
May 9, 2010
stages of life
The three crazy stages of life:
☑ Teen years: Have time and energy... But no money!
☑ Working years: Have money and energy... But no time!
☑ Old age: Have time and money... But no energy!
Life is too short.
☑ Teen years: Have time and energy... But no money!
☑ Working years: Have money and energy... But no time!
☑ Old age: Have time and money... But no energy!
Life is too short.
May 8, 2010
Mood Ber'bicara' & Berbicara Mood
Bertambah usia tdk menjamin semakin baik seseorang mengelola mood.
Menurut saya, lebih mudah memulai bicara drpd merespon bicara. Beberapa orang, yg sgt handal mengemukakan opini awal tnyata sgt buruk pd saat merespon pembicaraan.
Dilihat dari jenjang pengaruhnya seseorang bs baik atau tdk dlm mengemukakan pendapat ;
Dia tau kpn dia hrs bicara / merespon pembicaraan, artinya bs mengidentifikasi tepat / tdk nya suasana pd saat itu utk menerima isi bicara.
Tp yg sulit adalah merespon omongan, identifikasi time frame tdk bs dipakai lg bukan? Mau gak mau, agar apa yg kita respon itu keluarnya baik, ya kita hrs kelola dulu 'mood'nya pd saat itu.
Mood itu sendiri sbenernya tdk mempengaruhi isi pikiran bgt, ya apa pendapat kita ttg 1 hal tetap sama kok. Tp proses dan tujuan dr berbicara itulah yg terpengaruh sm mood.
Misalnya yg simpel aja ya, ktika pria bicara "kangen nih" ke si wanita pasangannya. Sbnernya yg diotak wanita itu isinya "kangen juga nih" dan pas mood lg bersahabat, keluarnya bs jd sama dgn isi otaknya. Tp kl mood lg jelek, tanpa sadar responnya bs malah aneh "kok bs kangen?", "tumben lu" dan semiripnya dan semiripnya.
Jangan harap si wanita mau mikirin apa sih yg diexpect sang pria dr ungkapan kangennya, si wanita dgn mood lg ancur itu malah fokus sm ekspektasi baru thd apa yg akan keluar lg dr mulut sipria. Capedeh.
(to be continued)
Menurut saya, lebih mudah memulai bicara drpd merespon bicara. Beberapa orang, yg sgt handal mengemukakan opini awal tnyata sgt buruk pd saat merespon pembicaraan.
Dilihat dari jenjang pengaruhnya seseorang bs baik atau tdk dlm mengemukakan pendapat ;
Dia tau kpn dia hrs bicara / merespon pembicaraan, artinya bs mengidentifikasi tepat / tdk nya suasana pd saat itu utk menerima isi bicara.
Tp yg sulit adalah merespon omongan, identifikasi time frame tdk bs dipakai lg bukan? Mau gak mau, agar apa yg kita respon itu keluarnya baik, ya kita hrs kelola dulu 'mood'nya pd saat itu.
Mood itu sendiri sbenernya tdk mempengaruhi isi pikiran bgt, ya apa pendapat kita ttg 1 hal tetap sama kok. Tp proses dan tujuan dr berbicara itulah yg terpengaruh sm mood.
Misalnya yg simpel aja ya, ktika pria bicara "kangen nih" ke si wanita pasangannya. Sbnernya yg diotak wanita itu isinya "kangen juga nih" dan pas mood lg bersahabat, keluarnya bs jd sama dgn isi otaknya. Tp kl mood lg jelek, tanpa sadar responnya bs malah aneh "kok bs kangen?", "tumben lu" dan semiripnya dan semiripnya.
Jangan harap si wanita mau mikirin apa sih yg diexpect sang pria dr ungkapan kangennya, si wanita dgn mood lg ancur itu malah fokus sm ekspektasi baru thd apa yg akan keluar lg dr mulut sipria. Capedeh.
(to be continued)
April 27, 2010
My RockStars ...
Here are My RockStars (istilah orang yg punya kiprah mengagumkan dibidangnya) ...
International ;
James Cameron, a film maker and movie director.
For me he is a brilliant creator who collects every details of crazy imaginations becoming visible and feel able.Genius.
Angelina Jolie, a hollywood celebrity and a poor nations social volunteer.
For me she is a woman who prouds to do bad and good things in life
and not ever have space to think bout what people would say about it.
Barrack Obama, a social and politic lawyer, US president.
For me he is one of a mankind who brought many nations to think the unthinkable,
and bring many impossible thoughts up to the table.
Local ;
Mario Teguh, a motivator and a positive thinker.
For me he is an ideal father in my dream.
The more I listen to him, the more I want to listen more.
Rene Suhardono, a career coach and a creative social networker.
For me he delivers believes with applicable way,
that great money follows great works and great works are comes from great passion, not the opposite way.
Edwin Manan, a general operator of outsourcing and executive search company.
For me he's good at dealing with people who hv destructive characters,
can differentiate expectation from every type of person and knows well how to simplify problems.
Ligwina Hananto, a freelance financial planner, ceo of financial company.
For me she is a woman who 'speaks' that financial should be practical with now language.
Eagering people to identify how much they should earn and spend money betterly.
Their good strengtnesses, fulfilling and influencing me.
I wish someday I can be somebody's rockstar !
International ;
James Cameron, a film maker and movie director.
For me he is a brilliant creator who collects every details of crazy imaginations becoming visible and feel able.Genius.
Angelina Jolie, a hollywood celebrity and a poor nations social volunteer.
For me she is a woman who prouds to do bad and good things in life
and not ever have space to think bout what people would say about it.
Barrack Obama, a social and politic lawyer, US president.
For me he is one of a mankind who brought many nations to think the unthinkable,
and bring many impossible thoughts up to the table.
Local ;
Mario Teguh, a motivator and a positive thinker.
For me he is an ideal father in my dream.
The more I listen to him, the more I want to listen more.
Rene Suhardono, a career coach and a creative social networker.
For me he delivers believes with applicable way,
that great money follows great works and great works are comes from great passion, not the opposite way.
Edwin Manan, a general operator of outsourcing and executive search company.
For me he's good at dealing with people who hv destructive characters,
can differentiate expectation from every type of person and knows well how to simplify problems.
Ligwina Hananto, a freelance financial planner, ceo of financial company.
For me she is a woman who 'speaks' that financial should be practical with now language.
Eagering people to identify how much they should earn and spend money betterly.
Their good strengtnesses, fulfilling and influencing me.
I wish someday I can be somebody's rockstar !
March 24, 2010
syarat
Dulu banyak orang percaya ada cinta tanpa syarat
Sekarang sepertinya agak sulit menemukan hal yg begitu.
Walau sedikit, setiap bentuk cinta selalu memiliki syarat dasar.
Bukan menatap
Bukan bertemu
Bukan menyentuh
Bukan memperhatikan
Katanya sih, syarat dasar mencintai dan dicintai
Adalah mendengar...
Jika syarat dasarnya tdk terpenuhi,
Apakah kita akan kuat terus mencinta?
Dicoba saja dulu!
Kalau tidak bisa, tinggal diganti jadi;
Syarat dasar mencintai dan dicintai
Adalah berkorban utk tdk didengar...
Gampang kan? :)
Sekarang sepertinya agak sulit menemukan hal yg begitu.
Walau sedikit, setiap bentuk cinta selalu memiliki syarat dasar.
Bukan menatap
Bukan bertemu
Bukan menyentuh
Bukan memperhatikan
Katanya sih, syarat dasar mencintai dan dicintai
Adalah mendengar...
Jika syarat dasarnya tdk terpenuhi,
Apakah kita akan kuat terus mencinta?
Dicoba saja dulu!
Kalau tidak bisa, tinggal diganti jadi;
Syarat dasar mencintai dan dicintai
Adalah berkorban utk tdk didengar...
Gampang kan? :)
March 16, 2010
February 28, 2010
the unknown lucky
This Girl so lucky
Good math from her father
Excellent bahasa from mother
That Boy so lucky
Golden voice from his papa
Charming face from mama
The Toddler so lucky
Everything from daddy
Everything from mommy
Above all, I believe those children are lucky
Having each parents whose ready to die for them
Whose keep leaving all the egos behind
Whose stays together forever watching them grow up
Well, have U ever imagine
How lucky our child would be?
We'll not ever know the feeling ...
We really are the lucky parents
Good math from her father
Excellent bahasa from mother
That Boy so lucky
Golden voice from his papa
Charming face from mama
The Toddler so lucky
Everything from daddy
Everything from mommy
Above all, I believe those children are lucky
Having each parents whose ready to die for them
Whose keep leaving all the egos behind
Whose stays together forever watching them grow up
Well, have U ever imagine
How lucky our child would be?
We'll not ever know the feeling ...
We really are the lucky parents
February 17, 2010
mimpi vs kenyataan
Harusnya yg mengalami mimpi atau yg mengalami kenyataan yg patut merasa takut?
Seribu kali mimpi yg sama, tdk pernah akan bs menandingi 1 kalipun kenyataan.
Seribu kali mimpi yg sama, tdk pernah akan bs menandingi 1 kalipun kenyataan.
February 16, 2010
kita lihat ...
Ketika apa yg telah aku lakukan yg terbaik, dirasakan terburuk baginya
Tidak ada jaminan, apalagi sertifikasi.
Percuma aku selalu teriak 'aku cinta kamu' bila yg didengar 'aku tidak cinta kamu'
Percuma aku berkata 'kamu satu2nya' bila yg didengar sebaliknya; 'kamu bukan satu2nya'
Ketika aku telah membunuh semua kepentinganku untuknya, yg aku harapkan adalah dia berfikir bahwa aku hanya miliknya.
Merasa tdk dihargai?
Merasa akan ditinggal?
Mari coba bertukar hati ...
Bisa kita lihat nanti, bahwa diantara kita,
Siapa yg lebih menyayangi siapa,
Siapa yg lebih membutuhkan siapa,
Siapa yg patut merasa ditinggal oleh siapa,
dan akhirnya, siapa yg selalu berada ditempat utk tetap mencinta ...
Ini bukan menang atau kalah...
Ini hanya rasa, yg merasa tdk dimengerti.
Tidak ada jaminan, apalagi sertifikasi.
Percuma aku selalu teriak 'aku cinta kamu' bila yg didengar 'aku tidak cinta kamu'
Percuma aku berkata 'kamu satu2nya' bila yg didengar sebaliknya; 'kamu bukan satu2nya'
Ketika aku telah membunuh semua kepentinganku untuknya, yg aku harapkan adalah dia berfikir bahwa aku hanya miliknya.
Merasa tdk dihargai?
Merasa akan ditinggal?
Mari coba bertukar hati ...
Bisa kita lihat nanti, bahwa diantara kita,
Siapa yg lebih menyayangi siapa,
Siapa yg lebih membutuhkan siapa,
Siapa yg patut merasa ditinggal oleh siapa,
dan akhirnya, siapa yg selalu berada ditempat utk tetap mencinta ...
Ini bukan menang atau kalah...
Ini hanya rasa, yg merasa tdk dimengerti.
February 11, 2010
what heart is all about...
An ear could be deaf when U suddenly hear incredible highest sound
A leg could unable to walk if U use it unproperly
A stomache could be yelling its full n sick, when U eat too much
A brain could be losing some datas when it already full of memories
Every organ in our body has its own limits
But, hearts will always starve n hungry
Eventhough they've got all what they want, it never conquor all
Eventhough they've been hurt over n over, they still need more hurts
Fulfilling hearts?
It'll be an endless and fulltime job
Cos they consume a lot of energy and time...
They eat loves, but for God's sake,
Love is not always served on the table, right?
So... U must search love, to make heart keep on beating
Heart has no limit.
Never enough, never satisfied.
Until U died.
A leg could unable to walk if U use it unproperly
A stomache could be yelling its full n sick, when U eat too much
A brain could be losing some datas when it already full of memories
Every organ in our body has its own limits
But, hearts will always starve n hungry
Eventhough they've got all what they want, it never conquor all
Eventhough they've been hurt over n over, they still need more hurts
Fulfilling hearts?
It'll be an endless and fulltime job
Cos they consume a lot of energy and time...
They eat loves, but for God's sake,
Love is not always served on the table, right?
So... U must search love, to make heart keep on beating
Heart has no limit.
Never enough, never satisfied.
Until U died.
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