February 13, 2015

It is Love

It is Love

Even a screamy mum. It is love.
It might the only language she took at childhood course.
But, it is love. In a Minionese language.

Even a speechless dad. It is love.
It must be the only choice he speaks. 
But, it is love. In a Ghost language.

Even an ignorant sibling. It is love.
It is the best way they cope with us. To comfort both sides.
But it is love. In a Cozy language.

Love has many different 'languages'
We dont have to understand all.
We just have to feel.

In family stuff,
Throw away 'head'.

Use heart. It will connect.

February 6, 2015

SplitSpa Community

Worth the wait.
Counting down to publish my new blog.

www.splitspa.com

A brainstorm utility for getting answers of how n why adults should know what's inside every children minds about parent's divorces. Explore the do's & dont's for splits couple, thru the children's perspectives.

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'I and my wife would accept in running our zombie life. We will do this for the sake of our children future.' (parents)

'I prefer seeing them seperately happy than having endless war. Just don't teach us that kind of love.' (a kid of a seems-to-know-all-kids-feelings parent)

'They may lost their each other's hearts. But dont make us so, please.' (children)

'The more you telling me bad things bout dad, the more negative feelings i have bout you, mom.' (daughter)

'If my parent would never seperated, i might not be as strong as i am now. Grateful for my childhood.' (son)

'Split maybe a bad-but-better decision we should make. But then blindly put children in a single parent zone, is the worse. There are options.' (divorce coach)
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This site is dedicated to my stranger-dad, my step siblings & my brave daughter. Yet, to all the broken homers friends.

October 28, 2014

Inspiring...

http://rustikaherlambang.com/2010/02/02/susi-pudjiastuti/

Hati hati dengan Hati

Hati hati dengan Hati...

Kemauannya, rajai akalmu
Kebutaannya, sesati indramu
Kecepatannya, tandingi otakmu
Kedukaanya, gelapi harimu
Kerinduannya, kuasai jiwamu
Kekejamannya, rasuki dendammu
Kebaikannya, ubah duniamu

Rendahnya tinggikan diri
Tingginya runtuhkan ego
Lembutnya deraskan airmata
Kerasnya jauhi mimpi
Abaianya sesakkan nafas
Deritanya perkosai raga
Sengatnya gairahkan kelamin
Marahnya rusaki darah

Angkuhnya tak berkompromi
Patahnya tak tersembuhi
Hilangnya tak berkembali

Hati...
Bahagia nya... Hidupi jiwa.
Tanpa nya... Matikan asa.

October 1, 2014

Envy

They wont envy my abused childhood.
Wont even borrow my teenage foot.
They wont envy my imperfect vintage family.
Nor envy my poor physically.
Broken. Stolen. Forgotten.
But, i dreamt..
someone will envy my other story..
A story of stupid naive girl who darely dreaming big while she had nothing.
A story of life reconstruction,
One story.. of how to accomplish impossible dreams...
...
011014

August 15, 2014

Human


I can hold my breath
I can bite my tongue
I can stay awake for days
If that's what you want
Be your number one
I can fake a smile
I can force a laugh
I can dance and play the part
If that's what you ask
Give you all I am
I can do it
I can do it
I can do it
But I'm only human
And I bleed when I fall down
I'm only human
And I crash and I break down
Your words in my head, knives in my heart
You build me up and then I fall apart
'Cause I'm only human
I can turn it on
Be a good machine
I can hold the weight of worlds
If that's what you need
Be your everything
I can do it
I can do it
I'll get through it
But I'm only human
And I bleed when I fall down
I'm only human
And I crash and I break down
Your words in my head, knives in my heart
You build me up and then I fall apart
'Cause I'm only human
I'm only human
I'm only human
Just a little human
I can take so much
'Till I've had enough
Cause I'm only human
And I bleed when I fall down
I'm only human
And I crash and i break down
your words in my head, knives in my heart
You build me up and then I fall apart
'Cause I'm only human
By Cristina Perry

August 14, 2014

Run my run

Say my ...
When will i dissapear my despair

Ask how ...
Come to fly with no high pay

Just tell ...
Dream day change my may-day

Why inside a close car, on parking lot, now being my only comfy place to breath.

Feel rich here, peaceful..